Her insan xwedî maf û biryara li ser bedena xwe û têkildariya cinsî ye. Li Swêde loma qanûna sûcê cînsî ya ku li ser dilxwaziyê avabûya heye. Têkildariya cinsî pêwiste bi dilxwazî bê wekî din sûce. Têkildariya cinsî tê wateya ku kesek bigotin anjî bizimanê bedenî bidê nîşandan ku ew dixwazê têkevê têkildariya cinsî. Ji ber vê yekê girînge ku guhdarkê bipirsê û rêzê bigrê. Tu mecbûr ewle bê ka yên din birastî dixwazin. Ji bo ku kesek werê ceza kirin tund anjî gef ne pêwiste. Wek mîne tund. wê tê watê ku kesekî ev rewş ji bo kesekî din bi kar aniye, wek mîne ku kesê din serxoş bûye. Ger ku têkildariya cinsî ne bi dilxwzî bê ev dibê sûcek.
Ji bîr neke ku ji mafê her kesiyê ku xwe biguherê. Çi çê bûbê anjî kê pêşî hewl dabê ferq nakê. Ger ku yên din têkildariya cinsî nexwazê, berdewamiya wê sûce. Erêkirineke şiklekî têkildariya cinsî nayê wateya ku ji bo têkildariyên din jî derbas bibê.
Ger ku te pirsên li ser malperê (webbplatsen) hebin tu dikarê tekiliyê bi dayireya mexdûriyete (Brottsoffermyndigheten) re bi riya registrator@brottsoffermyndigheten.se deynê.
Tu dikarê serdana malpera dayireya mexdûriyete (Brottsoffermyndigheten) www.brottsoffermyndigheten.se jî bikê. Li vir tu dikarê bi gelek zimanên cuda agahiyê li ser mafê mexdûriyetê (brottsoffer) bibînê. Tu dikarê li vir li ser gilîkirina cem polîs û mihakeme kirin jî çawa çê dibê bixwînê.
Divê têkildariya cinsî xweş werê hîs kirin – di serî, navber û dawî. Ger tu têkildariya cinsî bixwazê divê tu jê re guhdar, baldar bê û sînyalan bistînê.
Ger tu ne ewle bê ku kesên din çi dixwazê tu mecbûrî bipirsê da tu zanibê û tu rewşê rast têbigihijê. Texmîn neke. Di rewşeke herî xirab de, texmînek dikare bibe ku tu li hemberî kesê nexwazê tiştek bikê û ji ber vê yekê bêşêne û binpêbikê.
Wê demê tu jî sûcekî dikê.
Awakek baş ku yê din çawa hîs dikê agahî bistînê û li ser biaxiva. Ji kesedin ka çi dixwazê û çi lê xweş tê bipirse. Bi awayê ku tu zimanê bedenê fem bikê, ifada rû meyzêne û tonê deng guhdarkê.
Ger destdirêjiya cinsî li te hatibê kirin, ev tu carî ne şaşîtiya te ye. Ji bo vî tiştê hatî serê te tu tim xwedî mafê alîkarî û piştgiriyê yî. Gelek caran dikarê baştir bê ku li ser vî tiştê bûyî werê axaftin, wek mîne bi hevalekê/kî, bi kesekê/kî ji malbatê anjî kesek din ku tu lê ewle bê. Ger tu bixwazê bi kesekê/kî re biaxivê, gelek rêxistin jî hene ku tu dikarê bi wan re têkilî deynê.
Kirina têkildariya cinsî li hember bêdiliya kesekê/kî din her tim şaşe.
Ger tu bawer bê ku te têkildariya cinsî ya bêdilî li hember hinek din kiribê tu dikarê alikariyê bistînê. Tu dikarê li ser tiştê ku bûyî biaxivê û alîkariya ku tu reftariya xwe (tewrê xwe) biguharê bistînê. Tu dikarê wek mîne têkiliyê bi xeta alîkariyê PrevenTell re deynê.
Agahiyê li ser malpera PrevenTells zêdetir bibînê (tenê bi îngîlîzî û swêdî).
Ji 1ê tîrmeha 2018`an ve li Swêdê qanûna sûcê cîns ya ku li ser dilxwaziyê avabûya derketiye. Carinan jê re qanûna razîbûnê tê gotin. Qanûn eşkere dibêjê ku her kes li ser beden û jiyana xwe ya cinsî xwedî mafê biryar dayinê ye. Têkiliya cinsî divê (têkiliya seksê) bi dilxwazî be, yan na ev sûc e.
Têkiliya cinsî ya (seksê) bi dilxwazî tê wateya ku wî kesî bi xwe biryara ji bo têkîlî dayinê ya bi gotin yan jî bi zimanê bedenî erê kiriye.
Ger tu bixwazî bi yekê/kî re têkiliya cinsî (seksê) deynê divê tu birastî pêşî bizanibê ka ew kes jî di xwazê, wek mîne bi riya jê pirsînê.
Ev jî tê wateya ku her kes xwedî mafê kengî xwest dikarê fikra xwe biguherê ye. Berê çi bûye anjî kê pêşî helwest (înîsiyatîf) girtiye, ferqnakê. Ger ketina têkiliya cinsî (seksê) bi yekê/kî re bi bêdilî werê berdewam kirin, sûce.
Li gora qanûnê zarokeke dibin 15 salan re tu caran nikarê bi dilxwazî têkevê têkildariya cinsî. Ew ne girînge kesên din kiye anjî zarokê gotibê û dabê xuya kirin ku ew seksê dixwazê.
Rewşeke awerte dema kesên ku temenên wan nêzîkî hev têkildariya cinsî ji herdû terefan û bi dilxwazî be, bo mîne di nav cot têkildarî de. Ger ku vekirî herdu bi dilxwazî bixwazin têkevin têkildariya cinsî divê yê temenî wî di ser 15 salan re ji ber sûcî newê ceza kirin.
Mirovek ku ketibê têkildariya cinsî bi kesek ku temenê xwe di bin 15 salan re bê dikarê werê ceza kirin ger ku wê/wî bawer dikir ku ew mezintire. Kesê sûcdar bêdîqetî kiriye ku li temenên kesendî nepirsiye.
Ger ku dêûbavek anjî kesekî din yê ku welayeta kesekî di salên 15-17 de hebê û wê/î tûşî têkildariya cinsî bikê wek sûcê cinsî yê li hember zarokê tê hesêb kirin. Li gor qanûnê kesekî di vê rewşê de tu caran nikarê bi dilxwazî têkevê têkilî yê. Lê belê ciwanên di navbera 15-17 salî de dikarin bi dilxwazî têkildariya cinsî bi kesen din re deynin.
Gelek rayedar û sazî hene ku hûn dikarin ji bo alîkarî anjî piştgiriyê têkiliyê deynin. Ger tu bixwazê dikarî şiyandina bi mail, şat/mesaj anjî telefon û serdana miayenexanê kirinê hilbijêrê. Li vir girêdanên bi saziyên ku tu karibê têkilî deynê hene. Ger rewş acîl/akut bê divê tu telefonî banga bilez 112 bikê.
Ger dem nehatibê diyarkirin, xetên têlefonê rojê 24 saetan vekirî ne.
Here are links and contact details for organisations you can contact if you need help and support.
You can call 1177 and talk to a nurse around the clock if you need healthcare advice. The website contains information about health and diseases. You can also find information about local clinics.
The Police’s non-emergency contact number is 114 14. You can call this number if you want to talk to the police, ask a question or report a crime. You can also report a crime by visiting a police station in person. You can find your nearest police station on the police authority website.
You can call the emergency number 112 to alert the police if you are experiencing or have just been subject to a crime. You can call the number from a landline or mobile phone, wherever you are in Sweden. Your call will be answered by an emergency operator who will ask you questions in order to give you the necessary assistance.
Bris is available for people under 18. Here you can talk to a counsellor and get support and help. You can talk about anything that concerns yourself or someone you know. You can call, chat, email or book a telephone appointment. You are always anonymous when you contact Bris.
Telephone hours: Monday-Sunday, all hours
BUP welcomes children and young people under 18 years old. On bup.se you can read advice and information and find your closest BUP centre. You can also ask anonymous questions and read questions and answers from other young people.
The Ecpat helpline can give you support and advice about sexual insults, threats and assaults both online and IRL for people under the age of 18. Call or send an email via the website. You can remain anonymous.
Telephone opening hours: Monday - Thursday 9-12 & 13-22, Friday 9-12 & 13-22
Chat: Monday - Thursday 17-22, Friday 15-20
I Want to Know is a website created by the Swedish Crime Victim Authority aimed at children and young people. Here you can find out about what makes something a crime. You can also find contact information for support organisations where you live.
Killar.se (Guys' Questions) is an anonymous chat service for young guys where you can talk to someone who will listen, support and encourage you. You can be completely anonymous, and no question is too big or too small. You will talk to people of different genders and from different backgrounds, all aged 20 or above. Everyone has been trained to be a good support person. The website is only available in Swedish.
Kvinnors Nätverks Stödverksamhet (Women’s Network's Support Function) Linnamottagningen provides advice to youths, both girls and boys. Everyone who work at Linnamottagningen have been trained and have experience from working with young people who live under threats, control and violence from their family, relatives or people close to them. Matildamottagningen provides support for women with a foreign background, with or without a residence permit. If you need to talk to the authorities, Linnamottagningen or Matildamottagningen can represent you. The website is only available in Swedish.
Telephone hours: Daily 09:00-22:00.
Novahuset is a non-profit organisation that gives support and advice to people who have experienced any form of sexual assault. Everyone can contact Novahuset for support, no matter your age or gender identity. Those close to you are also welcome to contact Novahuset. You can talk about anything: from questions regarding your body, to getting help to process an assault, or reporting an assault to the police. The website is only available in Swedish.
A chat is open Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday between 19:00 and 21:00.
nxtME is a non-profit organisation aimed at people who have been subjected to incest. You can send an email, call, chat or meet a support worker. The website is only available in Swedish.
Telephone hours: Monday - Thursday, 9-16pm
Wednesday Evenings, 19.30-21
Chat: Tuesdays, 18-19.30
Thursdays (odd weeks), 16.30-19
The Ombudsman for Children is available for people under the age of 18. You can call the Ombudsman free of charge to find out more about your rights and where you can turn if you need help. If you have any questions about the Convention on the Rights of the Child, you can ask the Ombudsman.
Telephone hours: monday and wednesday 13:00-15:00, tuesday, thursday and friday 10:00-12:00
If you feel like your family or relatives are controlling you, and you are aged between 13 and 26 and live in Stockholm, you can talk to Origo. At Origo, there are adults who understand and can help you, regardless of your gender, sexuality, religion or ethnicity. You can call free of charge or ask an anonymous question.
Monday, Wednesday and Thursday 09:00-16:00, Tuesday 13:00-16:00 and Friday 09:00-15:00
PrevenTell is a national helpline for people who feel that they have lost control of their sexuality, who might be worried or afraid that they will harm themselves or others. You will have the chance to talk to someone anonymously and get support and help. If you are close to someone with problematic sexual behaviour or simply have questions, you can call PrevenTell.
Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 12:00-15:00. You can call at any time and leave a message. PrevenTell will call you back from a withheld number the following work day.
The RFSL Support Centre is there for people who identify as LGBTQ+ who have suffered insults, threats or violence. RFSL provides support through on-site conversations, telephone or email. You can remain anonymous and staff at the centre are trained and experienced. RFSL can offer follow-up and contact with healthcare services and the authorities.
RFSU is an organisation that provides information about sex and relationships. You can use the RFSU chat to ask private questions and get answers. You can also read other people's questions (in Swedish) in the questions and answers box.
Roks is the National Organisation for Women’s Shelters and Young Women's Shelters in Sweden. It is their task to protect the mutual interests of all Swedish women’s shelters and support them in their work. The Roks website provides information that will help you contact the right shelter.
Social services have the overall responsibility for making sure that residents of a municipality receive the help and support they need, and a specific obligation to support people who have been subjected to violence in close relationships. Each municipality has its own website where you can find information and contacts for the social services. On the website of the Swedish Association of Local Authorities and Regions, SKR, you can find a list of all municipalities. The list is only available in Swedish.
Somaya offers support, advice, information and protection for women and young people who are subjected to violence in close relationships. They also specialise in honour-related violence or oppression. You can call or email them and receive help in over 30 languages, including Arabic, Tigrinya, Farsi, Somali, Spanish and English. It is free of charge and you can remain anonymous.
Monday-Friday, 09:00-16:00
Storasyster (Big Sister) offers support to persons who have been subjected to rape or other forms of sexual assaults. You can remain anonymous and those who give support have made a confidentiality promise. Anyone from the age of 13 or older can get in touch, regardless of gender identity.
Chat: sunday - thursday, 19:00-21:00
friday och saturday, 13:00-15:00
If you are subjected to violence, you can call Sweden’s National Women’s Helpline, a support organisation run by Sweden's National Centre for Knowledge on Men’s Violence Against Women. Friends and relatives are also encouraged to contact the helpline. The call is free of charge and will not show up on your telephone bill. If you cannot speak Swedish or English, the helpline has access to interpreters for most languages spoken in Sweden. If you need an interpreter, it is important that you stay on the line as it can take up to ten minutes before the interpreter is connected.
The phone line is open 24 hours a day.
Chat: monday and thursday 15:00-21:00, sunday 11:00-17:00
Terrafem works for women's and girls' rights to live without male violence and dominance. They run the only nationwide emergency line and provide support and advice to women in over 67 different languages. Terrafem also provides a legal advice line and can provide safe houses and support for women who have been subjected to violence.
Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 09:00-15:00
The TRIS association works against honour-related violence and oppression. You can contact TRIS if you feel restricted by your family or relatives, have experienced threats or violence when you try to make your own choices, or just want to talk to someone. TRIS has social workers with lengthy experience of working with young people at risk of being subjected to honour-related violence and oppression. The website is only available in Swedish.
Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 9-16
UMO is a website for everyone aged between 13 and 25. UMO.se contains information about the body, sex, relationships, mental health, alcohol and drugs, self-esteem and much more. You can also find information about your local centres and ask personal questions. The website is only available in Swedish.
Unizon brings together over 130 women’s shelters, empowerment centres and other organisations that are working for a gender-equal society free of violence. Unizon can help you contact a centre.
Ungarelationer.se provides information and anonymous chat support for people aged 20 and under. Contact us if you are
- subjected to violence in your relationship
- have a friend who is subjected to violence
- the person responsible.
The website also provides information about different types of violence, warning signs and what makes a good relationship. The website is only available in Swedish.
Victim Support Sweden is available if you have been the victim of a crime or witnessed a crime. You can also contact Victim Support Sweden on behalf of a relative or someone you know who has been the victim of a crime. The website provides a list of local victim support services.
Telephone hours: Monday and Tuesday 9-19
Wednesday - Friday 9-17
Saturday and Sunday 9-12 and 13-16
Chat: every day 9-16
A website with information from UMO in different languages. The information is available in Swedish, English, Tigrinya, Somali, Dari and Arabic.
