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Ku imaanaya rabitaan madaxbannaan

Qof kasta uu xaq u leeyahay in uu xukumo jirkiisa iyo qaab galmeedkiisa, Sidaa darteeed Iswiidhan waxa eey leedahay sharci ah dembiyadda galmada oo ku dhisan rabitaan madaxbannaan. Galmo waa in eey ahaataa rabitaan madaxbannaan ku imaata, haddii kale waa dembi. Galmo ku imaatay rabitaan madaxbannaan waxaa loola jeedaa in uu qof erey ahaan ama dhaqdhaqaaq jir ahaan uu tuso in uu qofkaa rabo in uu ka qeeby qaato fal galmo ah. Sidaa darteed waa muhiim in la dhageysto, in la su’aalo, la dareemo lana xushmeeyo. Waa in aad hubsataa waxaa uu shakhsiga kale run ahaantii rabo. Marka shuruud ma aha in eey timaado xoogid ama hanjabaad tusaale ahaan si qof loogu xukmiyo dembi kufsi. Sidoo kale xitaa shuruud ma aha in uu qof ka faa’iideystey qof kale oo ku jira xaalad gaar ah oo khatar ah, tusaale ahaan waxaa ah in uu qofka kale uu cabsanaa. Haddii eey galmo ahayn mid ku tmid rabitaan madaxbannaan waa dembi.

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Dhamaan falalka galmooyinka waa in eey ahaadaan rabitaan madaxbannaan

Xasuuso in dadka dhan xaq u leeyihiin in eey is beddelaan. Wax micna ahna kuma fadhiso wixii hore u soo dhacay ama qofkii bilaabay. Waa dembi in fal galmo ah lala sii wado qof aanan doonayn. Oggolaansho haa ah oo ku aadan nooc sugan oo fal galmo ah micnaheedu ma ahan taasi in eey khuseeydo falal kale oo galmo ah.

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Ka hadlid wax ku saabsan galmo

Galmo waa in eey ahaataa wax fiican – kahor, gudaheeda iyo kaddiba. Haddii aad rabtid galmo waxa aad u baahntahay sidaa darteed in aad foojigtaanid, aad dhageysatid oo aadna qabatid calaamadaha.

Haddii aadan hubin waxa uu qofka kale doonayo waa in aad weeydiisid si aad u ogaatid in aad xaaladda si sax ah u turjumatay. Ha khiyaasanin. Xaaladda ugu xun ee khiyaasid kugu hogaamin kartaa waa in aad qofka kale wax uunan rabin ku sameysid och sidaa darteedna aad sharaf dishid ama aad dhaawacdid qofka. Markaa adiga xataa waxaa gashay dembi.

Qaab fiican oo aad ku ogaan kartid sida uu qof kale dareemayo waxaa waaye in aad taasi wax ku aadan in aad ka hadashid. Weeydii waxa uu qofka kale uu doonayo iyo waxa uu jecel yahay. Qaab kale waxaa ah in la aqristo dhaqdhaqaaqa jirka, dareenka wejiga laga aqrisan karo iyo habka kala duwidda codka.

Waxaa xaq u leedahay caawin iyo taageero

Marnaba ma aha khaladkaada haddii laguugu sameeyay ku xadgudub galmo. Markasta waxaad xaq u leedahay in aad heshid caawin iyo taageerid khuseyda wixii kugu soo dhacay. Badanaa waxaa la dareemi karaa fiicnaan in lagala hadlo wax ku saabsan wixii dhacay, tusaale ahaan saaxiibkaa, qof ka tirsan qoyskaada ama qof kale oo aad ku kalson tahay. Waxaa kaloo xitaa jiro ururo badan oo aad la xiriiri kartid haddii aad doonaysid in aad la hadashid qof.

Boggeena internetkeena waxaa laga helayaa liis ah ururo dhiibo caawin iyo taageerid (kaliya ah af iswiidhish/af ingiriis)

In lagu sameeyo qof kale wax aan dareenkoodu aanan fiicneen

Markasta waa khalad in fal galmo ah lagu fuliyo qof kale taa oo kasoo horjeeda rabitaanka qofkaa kale.

Waxaad heli kartaa caawin haddii aad isleedahay in aad falal galmo ah ku sameeysay wax kasoo horjeedo rabitaanka qof kale. Waad ka hadli kartaa wax ku saabsan wixii dhacay waxa aadna heli kartaa caawin si aad u bedeshid akhlaaqdaada. Waxaad adiga tusaale ahaan la xiriiri kartaa khadka caawinta ee PrevenTell.

Ka fiiri warbixin dheeraad ah halka ah bogga internetka ee PrevenTells(kaliya ah af iswiidhish/af ingiriis).

Ku saabsan Sharciga

Kaddib taariikhdii 1 bisha julaay 2018 Iswiidhan waxa eey leedahay sharci dejin ah dembiyadda isku taga galmada kaas oo ku dhisan rabitaan madaxbannaan. Sharciga waxa uu cadaynayaa in uu qof kasta uu xaq u leeyahay in uu xukumo jirkiisa iyo qaab galmeedkiisa, haddii kale waa dembi.

Galmada ku timaada rabitaanka madaxabannaan micnaheeda waa in uu qof erey ahaan ama dhaqdhaqaaq jir ahaan bixiyaa oggolaansho ah haa oo ah fal galmo. Haddii aad doonaysid in aad isku tag galmo qof la sameysid markaa waa in aad hubsataa haddii qofka kale run ahaantii uu doonayo, tusaale ahaan in la weydiiyo.

Waxaa kaloo xitaa taasi loola jeedaa in uu qofku xaq u leeyahay in uu isbeddelo markasto. Wax micna ahna kuma fadhiso wixii hore u soo dhacay ama qofkii bilaabay. Waa dembi in fal galmo ah lala sii wado qof aanan doonayn.

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Fal kasto oo galmo ah waa in uu ahaa mid ah rabitaan madaxbannaan

Oggolaansho haa ah oo ku aadan nooc sugan oo fal galmo ah micnaheedu ma ahan taasi in eey khuseeydo falal kale. Sidaa darteed waa muhiim in aad adiga xaalad kasta oo cusub aad weydiisid ama aad qaab kale ku hubsatid waxa uu qofka kale doonayo. Haddii qof tusaale ahaan uu haa dhahay ama uu tusay in uu qofkaa doonayo galmo dhaka afka ah taasi micnaheedu ma aha qofkaa in uu doonayo xitaa galmo ah xagga siilka ama xagga dabada ah. Qofka waa in uu dhahaa ama uu tusaa in uu doonayo in uu ka qeeyb qaato fal kasta oo cusub oo galmo ah. Taasi waxa eey shaqaysaa iyadoonan loo eegeyn kii bilaabay.

Galmo aan marnaba ahayn rabitaan madaxbannaan

Waxaa jiro xaaladdo markaa oo aanan marnaba loo arki karin in uu qof si madaxbannaani ah uga qeeyb qaadan karo gudaha fal galmo. Xaaladaha soo socda markasta waxaa weeye dembi in fal galmo ah lagu sameeyo qof. Wax micna ahna kuma fadhido in uu qofkaa dhahay ama uu tusay in uu doonayo.

  • Jir dil, xoogid ama hanjabaad

Haddii qof uu ka qeeyb qaato fal galmo ah kaas oo u hoggaansamaya cadaadis jir dil ah, xoogid ama hanjabaad darteed. Tusaale waxaa ah haddii dembiilaha uu garaaco ama qofka uu qabto. Tusaale kale waxaa ah haddii qofka dembiilaha ah uu ku hanjabo in uu faafiyo sawiro qaaqaawan oo ah qofka kale.

Ma u baahno in eey noqoto isla qofkii kan ku hawlan xoogida ama hanjabaada iyo kan samaynayo falka galmada si taasi loogu arko dembi ahaan. Tusaale waxaa ah haddii uu qof mid ka iibsado hawlo galmo ah uuna ka qeeyb qaato maadaamaa xoogid ama hanjabaad lagu cadaadiyey ama sababo kale dartood aanan uga qeeyb galeeyn rabitaan madaxbannaan.

  • Xaalad gaar ah oo khatara

Haddii qofka dembiilaha ah uu ka faa’iideysto qof kale oo ku jira xaalad gaar ah oo khatara, tusaale ahaan haddii uu qofkaa uu yahay mid cabsan ama daroogeysan yahay, qaba cudur, dhaawac jirka ah ama dhibaatooyin maskaxeed.

Waxa eey noqon kartaa xitaa in uu qof aad iyo aad u cabsanayo. Waxaa tusaale ahaan dhici karo marka eey cabsida badato in xaalada markaa eey cuuryaameeyso qofkii, xaalad la dhaho ’’frozen fright’’.

  • Si xun u iscticmaalid ku tiirsanaasho

Haddii qofka dembiilaha ah uu si xun u isticmaalo in qofka kale uu ku jiro xaalad uu ku tiirsan yahay qofka dembiilaha ah. Waxa eey tusaale ahaan noqon kartaa macalim iyo ardey ama qof madax ah iyo qof shaqaalo ah.

Wax ku saabsan dambiga ah kufsi iyo ku xadgudub galmo

Galmo ama falalka galmada oo aanan ahayn rabitaan madaxbannaan waxa eey noqon karaan tusaale ahaan kufsiga iyo ku xadgudubka galmada. Farqiga u dhexeeya labbadda dembi waxa uu ku saabsan yahay nooca galmada ee dhacday.

Dambiga ah kufsi waxaa loola jeedaa in uu qofka dembiilaha ah uu galmo sameeyo ama fal kale oo galmo ah taas oo loo barbardhigi karo galmo lagu sameeyay qof aanan taasi uga qeeyb gelin rabitaan madaxbannaan. Tusaale ahaan waxa eey noqon kartaa xagga siilka-, dabada- ama galmada xagga afka ah. Waxeey kaloo khuseydaa dhexgelinta isticmaalida alaab ama faraha. Kufsi waxa uu noqon karaa xitaa in uu qofka dembiilaha ah iyo qofka dhibanaha ah qeeybahooda jinsiga eey istaabtaan.

Dembiga ah ku xadgudub galmo waxa eey ka hadlaysaa falal galmo oo lagu sameeyay qof aanan rabitaan madaxbannaan uga qeeyb galeen laakiin taas oo aan loo xisaabineyn kufsi ahaan. Tusaale waxaa noqon karo haddii qof uu ku khasbo qof kale in uu siigeeysto ama shakhsi ahaantiisa siigeeysto asigoo taataabanaya qofkii kale. 

Labbo dembi oo cusub

Waxaa sharci dejinta cusub ka mid ah labbo dembi oo cusub: kufsi taxadar la’aan ah iyo ku xadgudub galmo taxadar la’aan ah. Waxa eey khuseydaa mararka uu qof sameeyo fal galmo ah inkasto uu qofkaa ku tuhmayay ama eey aheyd in uu ku tuhmo in uunan qofka kale uunan rabin. Qofkii rabo galmo ayaa sidaa darteed mas’uuliyad ka saaran tahay in uu soo ogaado haddii dhamaan dadka ku lugta leh run ahaantii eey rabaan in eey ka qeeb galaan.

Dembi galmo oo ah meel fog

Kufsi, ku xadgudub galmo iyo dembiyada kale ee galmada waxeey kaloo xitaa ka dhici karaan meel kaa fog, tusaale ahaan xagga qadka telefoonka ama barta internetka. Hal tusaale waxaa ah haddii qof uu ka yeelsiiyo qof kale in uu isku sameeyo falal galmo ah kaamiro horteeda.

Markasta waa dembi Falal galmo oo lagu sameeyo carruur ka yar 15 sano

Sida uu sharciga dhigayo marnaba carruur ka yar 15 sano rabitaan madaxbannaan ugama qeeyb gali karaan fal galmo ah. Wax micna ahna kuma fadhido qofka kale shakhsiguu yahay ama haddii carruurta eey dhahaan ama eey tusaan in eey rabaan galmo.

Mar eey taasi reeban tahay ayaa ah markii eey dad qiyaas ahaantii isku da’ ah eey rabitaankooda madaxbannaan ee ka dhexeeya labbadda dhinacba galmo ku sameeyaan, tusaale ahaan labbo qof oo xirrir lamaanenimo ah ka dhexeeyso. Haddii eey cadahay in eey rabitaankooda madaxbannaan ku rabaan in eey galmo isla sameeyaan markaa qofka ka weeyn 15 sano laguma xukminayo dembi.

Qof ku sameeysay falal galmo ah qof da’diisu kayar tahay 15 sano waxaa lagu xukmin karaa dembi xitaa kaa hadduu mooday in uu qofkaa weeynaa. Qofka dembiilaha ah ayaa markaa ahaaday taxadar la’aan oo aanan soo hubsan da’da qofkaa.

Da’yarta u dhexeyda 15 iyo 17 oo sano

Haddii waalid ama qof kale oo gacanta ku haya daryeelka qof da’deedu u dhexeeydo 15 – 17 sano kuna sameeyo kaa falal galmo taasi waxaa loo xisaabinayaa sida dembi galmo lagu sameeyay carruur. Sida uu sharciga dhigayo qof ku jirta xaaladdaan marnaba in eeynan si rabitaan madaxbannaan uga qeyb geli karin. Laakiin da’yarta u dhexeeydo 15 – 17 sano waxa eey galmo dad kale kula sameeyn karaan rabitaankooda madaxbannaan.

La xirriir

Waxaa jira hey’ado dowladeed iyo ururro badan oo aad la xiriiri karto haddii aad u baahan tahay taageerid/caawimaad. Waxaad dooran kartaa in aad iimeel u dirto, in aad wacdo ama in aad dhambaal qoraal ah u dirto ama in aad ku booqato xarumahooda qaabilaad. Halkan waxaa laga helayaa leeman kugu xiraya ururro aad la xiriiri karto. Haddii ey xaalad degdeg ah jirto waxaad wacdaa 112.

Haddii eysan jirin waqtiyo cayiman leemanka taleefanka waxey shaqeynayaan afar iyo labaatan saac.

Here are links and contact details for organisations you can contact if you need help and support.

1177 - the Healthcare Guide

You can call 1177 and talk to a nurse around the clock if you need healthcare advice. The website contains information about health and diseases. You can also find information about local clinics.

114 14 – Swedish Police

The Police’s non-emergency contact number is 114 14. You can call this number if you want to talk to the police, ask a question or report a crime. You can also report a crime by visiting a police station in person. You can find your nearest police station on the police authority website.

112 – SOS Alarm

You can call the emergency number 112 to alert the police if you are experiencing or have just been subject to a crime. You can call the number from a landline or mobile phone, wherever you are in Sweden. Your call will be answered by an emergency operator who will ask you questions in order to give you the necessary assistance.

BRIS

Bris is available for people under 18. Here you can talk to a counsellor and get support and help. You can talk about anything that concerns yourself or someone you know. You can call, chat, email or book a telephone appointment. You are always anonymous when you contact Bris.

Telephone hours: Monday-Sunday, all hours

Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Services (BUP)

BUP welcomes children and young people under 18 years old. On bup.se you can read advice and information and find your closest BUP centre. You can also ask anonymous questions and read questions and answers from other young people.

Ecpat helpline for children and youth

The Ecpat helpline can give you support and advice about sexual insults, threats and assaults both online and IRL for people under the age of 18. Call or send an email via the website. You can remain anonymous.

Telephone opening hours: Monday - Thursday 9-12 & 13-22, Friday 9-12 & 13-22
Chat: Monday - Thursday 17-22, Friday 15-20

I Want to Know

I Want to Know is a website created by the Swedish Crime Victim Authority aimed at children and young people. Here you can find out about what makes something a crime. You can also find contact information for support organisations where you live.

Killar.se

Killar.se (Guys' Questions) is an anonymous chat service for young guys where you can talk to someone who will listen, support and encourage you. You can be completely anonymous, and no question is too big or too small. You will talk to people of different genders and from different backgrounds, all aged 20 or above. Everyone has been trained to be a good support person. The website is only available in Swedish.

Kvinnors Nätverks Stödverksamhet

Kvinnors Nätverks Stödverksamhet (Women’s Network's Support Function) Linnamottagningen provides advice to youths, both girls and boys. Everyone who work at Linnamottagningen have been trained and have experience from working with young people who live under threats, control and violence from their family, relatives or people close to them. Matildamottagningen provides support for women with a foreign background, with or without a residence permit. If you need to talk to the authorities, Linnamottagningen or Matildamottagningen can represent you. The website is only available in Swedish.

Telephone hours: Daily 09:00-22:00.

Novahuset

Novahuset is a non-profit organisation that gives support and advice to people who have experienced any form of sexual assault. Everyone can contact Novahuset for support, no matter your age or gender identity. Those close to you are also welcome to contact Novahuset. You can talk about anything: from questions regarding your body, to getting help to process an assault, or reporting an assault to the police. The website is only available in Swedish.

A chat is open Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday between 19:00 and 21:00.

nxtME

nxtME is a non-profit organisation aimed at people who have been subjected to incest. You can send an email, call, chat or meet a support worker. The website is only available in Swedish.

Telephone hours: Monday - Thursday, 9-16pm
Wednesday Evenings, 19.30-21
Chat: Tuesdays, 18-19.30
Thursdays (odd weeks), 16.30-19

Ombudsman for Children

The Ombudsman for Children is available for people under the age of 18. You can call the Ombudsman free of charge to find out more about your rights and where you can turn if you need help. If you have any questions about the Convention on the Rights of the Child, you can ask the Ombudsman.

Telephone hours: monday and wednesday 13:00-15:00, tuesday, thursday and friday 10:00-12:00

Origo

If you feel like your family or relatives are controlling you, and you are aged between 13 and 26 and live in Stockholm, you can talk to Origo. At Origo, there are adults who understand and can help you, regardless of your gender, sexuality, religion or ethnicity. You can call free of charge or ask an anonymous question.

Monday, Wednesday and Thursday 09:00-16:00, Tuesday 13:00-16:00 and Friday 09:00-15:00

PrevenTell

PrevenTell is a national helpline for people who feel that they have lost control of their sexuality, who might be worried or afraid that they will harm themselves or others. You will have the chance to talk to someone anonymously and get support and help. If you are close to someone with problematic sexual behaviour or simply have questions, you can call PrevenTell.

Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 12:00-15:00. You can call at any time and leave a message. PrevenTell will call you back from a withheld number the following work day.

RFSL Support Centre

The RFSL Support Centre is there for people who identify as LGBTQ+ who have suffered insults, threats or violence. RFSL provides support through on-site conversations, telephone or email. You can remain anonymous and staff at the centre are trained and experienced. RFSL can offer follow-up and contact with healthcare services and the authorities.

RFSU

RFSU is an organisation that provides information about sex and relationships. You can use the RFSU chat to ask private questions and get answers. You can also read other people's questions (in Swedish) in the questions and answers box.

Roks

Roks is the National Organisation for Women’s Shelters and Young Women's Shelters in Sweden. It is their task to protect the mutual interests of all Swedish women’s shelters and support them in their work. The Roks website provides information that will help you contact the right shelter.

Social Services

Social services have the overall responsibility for making sure that residents of a municipality receive the help and support they need, and a specific obligation to support people who have been subjected to violence in close relationships. Each municipality has its own website where you can find information and contacts for the social services. On the website of the Swedish Association of Local Authorities and Regions, SKR, you can find a list of all municipalities. The list is only available in Swedish.

Somaya safehouses for women and their children

Somaya offers support, advice, information and protection for women and young people who are subjected to violence in close relationships. They also specialise in honour-related violence or oppression. You can call or email them and receive help in over 30 languages, including Arabic, Tigrinya, Farsi, Somali, Spanish and English. It is free of charge and you can remain anonymous.

Monday-Friday, 09:00-16:00

Storasyster

Storasyster (Big Sister) offers support to persons who have been subjected to rape or other forms of sexual assaults. You can remain anonymous and those who give support have made a confidentiality promise. Anyone from the age of 13 or older can get in touch, regardless of gender identity.

Chat: sunday - thursday, 19:00-21:00
friday och saturday, 13:00-15:00

Sweden’s National Women’s Helpline

If you are subjected to violence, you can call Sweden’s National Women’s Helpline, a support organisation run by Sweden's National Centre for Knowledge on Men’s Violence Against Women. Friends and relatives are also encouraged to contact the helpline. The call is free of charge and will not show up on your telephone bill. If you cannot speak Swedish or English, the helpline has access to interpreters for most languages spoken in Sweden. If you need an interpreter, it is important that you stay on the line as it can take up to ten minutes before the interpreter is connected.

The phone line is open 24 hours a day.
Chat: monday and thursday 15:00-21:00, sunday 11:00-17:00

Terrafem

Terrafem works for women's and girls' rights to live without male violence and dominance. They run the only nationwide emergency line and provide support and advice to women in over 67 different languages. Terrafem also provides a legal advice line and can provide safe houses and support for women who have been subjected to violence.

Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 09:00-15:00

TRIS

The TRIS association works against honour-related violence and oppression. You can contact TRIS if you feel restricted by your family or relatives, have experienced threats or violence when you try to make your own choices, or just want to talk to someone. TRIS has social workers with lengthy experience of working with young people at risk of being subjected to honour-related violence and oppression. The website is only available in Swedish.

Telephone hours: Monday-Friday 9-16

UMO

UMO is a website for everyone aged between 13 and 25. UMO.se contains information about the body, sex, relationships, mental health, alcohol and drugs, self-esteem and much more. You can also find information about your local centres and ask personal questions. The website is only available in Swedish.

Unizon

Unizon brings together over 130 women’s shelters, empowerment centres and other organisations that are working for a gender-equal society free of violence. Unizon can help you contact a centre.

Ungarelationer.se

Ungarelationer.se provides information and anonymous chat support for people aged 20 and under. Contact us if you are
- subjected to violence in your relationship
- have a friend who is subjected to violence
- the person responsible.

The website also provides information about different types of violence, warning signs and what makes a good relationship. The website is only available in Swedish.

Victim Support Sweden

Victim Support Sweden is available if you have been the victim of a crime or witnessed a crime. You can also contact Victim Support Sweden on behalf of a relative or someone you know who has been the victim of a crime. The website provides a list of local victim support services.


Telephone hours: Monday and Tuesday 9-19
Wednesday - Friday 9-17
Saturday and Sunday 9-12 and 13-16
Chat: every day 9-16

Youmo

A website with information from UMO in different languages. The information is available in Swedish, English, Tigrinya, Somali, Dari and Arabic.